Paul's Passing Thoughts

Indiana Pastor Among the Few in Our Time to Stand Against Spiritual Tyranny

Posted in Uncategorized by Paul M. Dohse Sr. on August 27, 2012

“….but nevertheless, what seems to be escaping most bloggers is the significance of Pastor Eric Starkey’s recent public confrontation of Eagle Heights Community Church….”

“Did you know that a shark will not eat an attorney? ‘No, I didn’t know that. Why is that the case?’ “Professional courtesy.” Some say such is true about doctors as well, but I can tell you for certain that it is true among pastors. Never before in history has the pastor-buddy network been stronger, and invitations to conferences more important than truth.

Hence, victims of the present-day spiritual abuse tsunami pleading their case to other pastors are like chickens running to Colonial Sanders for help. “I’m sorry, we can’t help. That church is not accountable to us, it’s not our business.” Unless, of course, the member wants to join their church—now being under discipline at another church is an issue, and all of a sudden, it is their business after all. “But, but, they need to tell the other church that it is an unjust discipline!” You’re kidding, right? Also, when it comes to cooperative funds, the song is….”we are Baptist Church, hear us roar, in numbers too big to ignore…if I have to, I can do anything, I am Baptist.” But when a pastor king rapes someone, or destroys their life for asking too many questions, the song is….”I am alone, ….I am a rock, I am an Island, I am an independently autonomous Baptist church.”

In case you haven’t noticed, when a church gets sued, pastors from one end of the coast to the other are not at a loss for words regarding the woes of this “ litigational society” that we live in. Organizations such as PeaceMakers are in business to protect the organization and not the abused parishioner. This is because most abused parishioners have been excommunicated and declared an “unbeliever,” and PeaceMakers only works with “disputes between brothers.” This wink and a nod between PeaceMakers and “gospel-centered” churches keeps PeaceMakers from biting the hand that feeds them. And by the way, I have firsthand knowledge of this—the supposed elder authority honored by heaven, even if elders are in the wrong, is assumed. Neither were churches at a loss for words when they threatened my son-in-law and daughter for building a website to expose Clearcreek Chapel in Springboro, Ohio.

True, my son-in-law is a pastor, and then there is the one, lone name in the GARB/ABWE camp: Pastor David C. Bennett, but nevertheless, what seems to be escaping most bloggers is the significance of Pastor Eric Starkey’s recent public confrontation of Eagle Heights Community Church (eagleheights.oligarchywp.com). This is a pastor taking a stand, and naming names. Go figure, a pastor really believing that the one is just as important as the ninety-nine. Possibly saving one Christian from abuse is all the reason he needs. Really? There are such men among us in this day? Few.

Why is this so rare? Easy: thanks to Augustine and his infatuation with neo-Platonism, the Platonic threefold social model of philosopher king, soldier, and producer is deeply ingrained into the Christian psyche. I have been a pastor and have talked to many of them behind closed doors—an us against them mentality is far more prevalent than we want to admit.

Gross generalization? Then you tell me how the present-day plenary worship of inability and the total depravity of the saints got here coupled with total dependence on elders by proxy. In many “mainline” churches, husbands will barely make any decision at all without permission from the elders. Even when we do accomplish something for God, we lament in sackcloth and ashes that somebody may think well of us. Complimenting somebody will often bring a rebuke for not, “giving all of the glory to God.” Truly, I’m not kidding, after receiving my share of rebukes, I have ratcheted back from complimenting people in the church. Sad, because a cursory observation of  the Apostle Paul’s writings would reveal a constant praising of the saints.

And why is his stand so important? Look, if the pastorate as a whole would not tolerate this behavior, it would simply not be going on. Pastors look the other way because of Platonic class warfare—abuse is “unfortunate collateral damage.” Gross generalization? Then you tell me why the sheep are utterly expendable for the organization and the pastor king. Tell me that the present mentality of the pastorate is not the antithesis of Christ’s one and ninety-nine.

Pray that this pastor is a small flame that God will fan into a big one. All things must have a start, and we need to think about where it goes from here.

paul

 

 

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  1. Julie Anne's avatar Julie Anne said, on August 27, 2012 at 4:14 PM

    Amen, Paul! I have a draft post coming up soon about Eric’s public statement. Pastors and religious leaders are very quick to defend their own (pastors/leaders) BLINDLY. I have found that to be true time and again on my case as well. They spent more time focusing on the fact that I disclosed my pastor’s errors rather than even doing a quick search to see if what I said was true. You would think that his action of suing 5 former congregants for $500K would have been the most obvious RED FLAG that something serious was going on. But somehow, they seemed to skim passed that – knowing he failed to follow pastoral counsel that recommended he not sue and also knowing he failed to follow the clear biblical principle of not suing Christians. Why do pastors get free passes???? So who gets the blame? The ones exposing TRUTH!

    Don’t get me going, Paul!! It won’t be pretty.

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    • Paul M. Dohse Sr.'s avatar paulspassingthoughts said, on August 27, 2012 at 4:32 PM

      Julie Anne,

      I’m not so sure anybody of any significance that supposedly told Chuck not to sue you, really did so. I don’t buy it. If Mac tells Chuck not to sue, he doesn’t sue–that’s where my money is going. And if Mac (the Phil puppet–same difference) doesn’t agree with anything Fred Butler states–it doesn’t show up on the computer screen. Mac rules that neck of the woods with….well, let me put it this way: it gives new meaning to “Iron sharpens iron.”

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  2. Bridget's avatar Bridget said, on August 28, 2012 at 10:14 AM

    Paul –

    AoR (Ambassadors of Reconciliation) should be added to the list of groups that is hired by ministries to “manage the abused.” They are the group that handled the HUGE SGM mess and took a harder stance about bloggers than abuses in the ministry . . . as Deb at TWW would say, “follow the money.”

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